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IN LIEU OF FLOWERS
Olivia’s family asks that in lieu of flowers, memorial contributions be made to The National Alliance on Mental Illness – NAMI, PO Box 49104, Baltimore, MD 21297 or on-line at https://www.nami.org/?campaign=509521 in memory of Olivia K. Jarem.
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M. posted a condolence
Tuesday, August 20, 2024
I didn't know Olivia very well, but we rode the same school bus for practically our entire time attending Shenendehowa High School. She was always a kind person who was welcoming to conversation even though we weren't necessarily in the same social circles.
The fact that she exceled in both academics and athletics is not surprising. Neither is the fact that she pursued a career where she could help others.
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Susan Warzek posted a condolence
Thursday, August 1, 2024
Eulogy for Olivia 6/24/24
In this brief life, if we are lucky, we get to love one another, to share our hopes and dreams; to share a few precious moments in the light of happiness and peace.
We were all lucky to have had those moments with Olivia - her smile lit the room and went from her head to her toes, and her intentions were always genuine, her heart on her sleeve.
I was lucky, she was my friend.
She strove to make a positive impact on everyone she met and she did. - the outpouring to the Jarems has been incredible.
Olivia was a fighter. She fought for herself, for her sanity, and mostly for her Harper. - every second of every day she fought to be here. I will remember Olivia as the fiercest of warriors with a heart and soul too gentle and fragile for this world.
Olivia, Your fight is over, may you rest now and forever in peace and light, until we meet again.
My love goes out to you all, cherish your memories and remember, we were the lucky ones.
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Greg Adams posted a condolence
Sunday, July 21, 2024
Olivia was one of those students a teacher never forgets. She was a shining light that always brightened my day. So sad to think that such a bright light is no more. I hope her memory can somehow cast a light all the sadness her passing brings.
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Thursday, July 11, 2024
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Sweet Olivia, I will hold your love & light in my heart always, as you said to me once "kindred spirits"
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Thursday, July 4, 2024
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Saturday, June 29, 2024
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Stacy Miller posted a condolence
Saturday, June 29, 2024
Olivia was a beautifully person. She will be missed dearly.
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Johnnie Jones posted a condolence
Saturday, June 29, 2024
Dear Margy and Russ,
We are so sorry for your loss. They say that losing a child of any age is one of life's most difficult things to cope with. We can only imagine what you are going through. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. Love, Chris and Johnnie
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Andrew Gudmundsen posted a condolence
Friday, June 28, 2024
Sending my deepest sympathies to Olivia's loved ones. Truly a shining light unmistakable to anyone to have met her. No doubt her selfless, thoughtful, and caring way carries on through all those whose lives she touched.
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Peter and Janet Battaglia posted a condolence
Wednesday, June 26, 2024
Dear Russ and Margy- it is with fond memories of knowing Olivia and your family through UA Lacrosse that we extend heartfelt sympathy to all of you left in sadness and missing Olivia. Please know you all are in our daily thoughts as is Olivia.
Peter and Janet Battaglia
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Bowman Family posted a condolence
Tuesday, June 25, 2024
Our sincere condolences to all of you. May all of the happy memories, successes, and achievements of Olivia help you all through this difficult time.
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Paula Posada posted a condolence
Tuesday, June 25, 2024
The staff at Finders Keepers Consignments would like to express our heartfelt condolences upon hearing of the loss of your beautiful Olivia. Please know that our thoughts are with your family.
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Aaron Mahone posted a condolence
Monday, June 24, 2024
To Olivia's family, and to anyone who had the privilege of knowing her, please accept my deepest condolences. While Olivia and I did not keep in touch after high school, I often think about her, and will always remember her fondly. I learned so much from her. She was a gifted writer and always provided thoughtful feedback to help my writing. I remember her vividly. In Mr. Marvin's class, she and I did a report on Eric Hoffer, The Longshoreman Philosopher. The following year, we sat next to each other in Ms. Jacques' AP English class. She shared with me that her mother named her Olivia after walking among a grove of olive trees. I hope that Olivia's magical spirit is celebrated and that her daughter and family will carry her spirit with them every day. I know I will.
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Monday, June 24, 2024
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Adam Grinvalsky posted a condolence
Monday, June 24, 2024
I am so very sorry to hear about the passing of Olivia. I remember her in my days as a teenager during Budokai. Shihan Russel and family I will pray for you all during this difficult time. I pray beautiful memories help heal the pain. God bless you all and may the angels bring Olivia to eternal peace in heaven.
Adam Grinvalsky
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The Canceran Family posted a condolence
Monday, June 24, 2024
We cannot even imagine the sadness and hurt you are feeling. We can only send our condolences with the utmost love for you and your family. We are thinking about you throughout this hard time in your lives now. We pray you find strength and peace. Olivia was a beautiful soul and will surely be missed.
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Mandi Fox posted a condolence
Monday, June 24, 2024
Dear Family, I wish I had the words to comfort you. Olivia was a special soul, her quiet disposition and inspiring energy made those around her feel comfortable. I met Olivia at the gym and we instantly connected. Then she asked if I could mentor her in the Special Ed department at Ballston Spa and it was an honor. The kids loved her and she knew how to manage them and connect with them, especially the difficult ones. I will miss her and my heart aches for all of you. I will pray you feel the Lord's comfort. God doesn't promise that we won't go through hard times, but he does promise to go through them with us. Lean on Him. Mandi
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Cynthia Sagendorph posted a condolence
Monday, June 24, 2024
Olivia was an amazing Person! I am so saddened to hear of her loss. Her accomplishments are impressive. My condolences to her family for such a loss.
She was beautiful on the inside and outside. I have met many special Ed teachers/staff at Shenendehowa… The demands are great on them but they are simply amazing for what they do.
Please accept my condolences for such a tremendous loss!
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Terry & Doug Wingate, posted a condolence
Monday, June 24, 2024
Russ & Margy,
There are no words to express how sorry we are to hear about the loss of your beautiful daughter Olivia! Our hearts ache for you. We will be keeping you in our thoughts and prayers.
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Chatty posted a condolence
Monday, June 24, 2024
Russ, Margy..
Words will never be enough. I’ve been fortunate to have Liv as a friend for over 20 years. She was a guiding light in my life and so full of love. We are all so lucky to have her in our lives. I’m so lucky we always found our way back to one another. I have so many amazing lacrosse memories with our families.. I keep hoping this is a dream. She is the guiding light we all need.
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Jim and Donna Granger posted a condolence
Sunday, June 23, 2024
It is difficult to find words to express how deeply saddened we are to hear about the loss of your beautiful daughter.I have had the privilege of knowing your family and have explained to Donna how I have loved you all for many years.
We both have been searching for the appropriate words to convey our heartfelt sympathy, but there are none. I love and care deeply for you and we both will share your loss.
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Sanford Kemp posted a condolence
Sunday, June 23, 2024
Margy and Russ,
I am deeply sorry for your profound loss of your dearest daughter Olivia Katharine.
She has left an amazing legacy that has touched and will surely continue to touch many over the coming years. What a remarkable young woman!
May her soul know the joy of being with God now and forever and may you be consoled through family, friends and treasured memories .
Sanford Kemp, French Teacher
Tamarac HS ‘66-‘70
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Margaret Q Jarem Posted Jul 20, 2024 at 10:16 AM
So Beautiful, Monsieur!
Your influence on me has remained strong.
My French is decent.
I've added adequate German and twice experienced some ability to
communicate in Germany.
My latest, however, is Arabic! I'm a solid beginner. (I lived and worked in Egypt and Jordan for a total of 5 1/2 years.
I can't find the words to express how joyous it is to hear from you.
Merci, margy
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Jim and Regina Glover posted a condolence
Sunday, June 23, 2024
We are so sorry to hear about Olivia's passing.
We will send a donation to the Alliance. Only wish we could do more.
Jim and Regina
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Nicole Mestoik (Patrizio) posted a condolence
Sunday, June 23, 2024
Jeram Family,
So sorry for your loss.
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Yetta O’Shea posted a condolence
Sunday, June 23, 2024
My heart goes out to you and your family, Hanshi. We were so sad to hear the news. The boys and I are send our heartfelt condolences to you and the family.
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Eric Leone posted a condolence
Sunday, June 23, 2024
Rest In Peace…Sending love and prayers during this difficult time. God bless
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Eric Leo e posted a condolence
Sunday, June 23, 2024
Rest In Peace…Sending love and prayers during this difficult time. God bless
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Crickett, Dennis & Bre O'Dell posted a condolence
Sunday, June 23, 2024
There are no words that are adequate in expressing how much we are saddened to hear of Olivia's passing, may the joyful and wonderful memories of her keep and sustain you, we are sending you our love and prayers.
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Rachael Johnson-Livsey posted a condolence
Sunday, June 23, 2024
Olivia’s beautiful light will continue to shine through those that knew and loved her, and the many lives she touched.
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Amelia Smith posted a condolence
Sunday, June 23, 2024
Olivia, was the most amazing person in the whole world. When I spoke to her many times, she brought so much light into the room. She always had a smile on her face, even though some days were hard. Her kind words and loving personality made you feel so special. I will never forget her. She expressed many times her love towards her daughter Harper. I could tell that they were inseparable. I hope that Haper knows how much her mother loves her. I will always remember Olivia for the incredible person she was. I will hold on to the memories of her dear to my heart. Working with her made me a better person. I love you Olivia!❤
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Joe and Patricia Pinto posted a condolence
Sunday, June 23, 2024
We are so sorry for your loss, and we will keep her and all of you in our thoughts and prayers.
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Saturday, June 22, 2024
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Saturday, June 22, 2024
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Sending love, I worked with Olivia. May she rest in peace.
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Lauren McTarnaghan posted a condolence
Saturday, June 22, 2024
I had the pleasure playing lacrosse and graduating with Olivia. In August, we reconnected at Shen’s new teacher orientation. She was so excited to start this new chapter of being a special education teacher. Her excitement truly shined when she talked about her daughter, Harper. As she shared stories with me about Harper, her face lit up with such joy and love.
To Harper & the Jarem family - sending you hugs and love during this time. Harper - you have a beautiful angel watching over you.
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Chloe Gervais posted a condolence
Saturday, June 22, 2024
you were loved and cared for by many. Rest in peace
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Amanda Distel posted a condolence
Saturday, June 22, 2024
My deepest condolences to Olivia’s family and friends. Having played lacrosse and graduated with Olivia her kindness and beautiful soul was always the pick me up we all needed. A true inspiration to everyone around her. I don’t think high school or the Varsity Lacrosse team would have been the same without her. She will truly be missed by all.
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Saturday, June 22, 2024
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Tara Vukelic posted a condolence
Saturday, June 22, 2024
I am heartbroken to hear of the passing of Olivia. Liv. Juice. I have the fondest and happiest memories growing up with her. She was a constant and true friend throughout my childhood and such a beautiful person. She was kind, thoughtful, funny, passionate, athletic, smart, and loyal. We connected immediately in 6th grade, taught each other how to play lacrosse, shared and shaped countless memories through high school together. I have always remembered our experiences together with a smile and will continue to do so.
Jarem family, I am sending you the biggest hug and all of the love during this time, and always. Harper has a beautiful shining light watching over her.
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Jessica Phalen posted a condolence
Saturday, June 22, 2024
I am so deeply saddened to hear of Olivia's passing. She was a great friend of mine for 20 years, we worked together at Salty's, attended the same classes at U Albany, and shared so many life experiences together. We always looked to one another for support when we needed it no matter how much time had passed. Our daughters played together sometimes, and we would share our journeys of motherhood with one another. She was an amazing person and I will think of her often in such a bright light. She was truly one of the most kind, intelligent, beautiful souls I have ever met and she will be missed tremendously. My thoughts and prayers are with all of her family and loved ones at this time. Until we meet again
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Rachel Leavey posted a condolence
Saturday, June 22, 2024
My deepest condolences are with the Jarem family at this extremely difficult time. Olivia was one of my childhood best friends. At one time, we did everything together. She was always such a positive influence on those around her, including myself. I remember her loyalty, her playfulness and her discipline. We re-connected a few years ago and I still saw all of those some traits in her. She always had a beautiful, deep and old soul. I smile knowing she is at peace watching over her beautiful daughter.
Liv, I will always remember you with love and fondness.
Rach Peluso
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Peter Mahigian posted a condolence
Saturday, June 22, 2024
I'm saddened to know of Olivia's death. I hope your memories and love for her are strong and last forever. Much love to you always, my friends.
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Cailee Parlo Simon posted a condolence
Saturday, June 22, 2024
I’m deeply saddened by this news. I remember Olivia for her loving, generous, caring nature. Our childhood friendship we shared will always stay with me. I offer my deepest condolences to her family and friends.
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Julienne Bifaro posted a condolence
Saturday, June 22, 2024
My heart is broken. Olivia was my third grade student. Not only was she one of the brightest students I ever taught, she was also one of the kindest and most caring. I was happy to read of all her accomplishments. But the world has lost a shining star today. Rest in peace, Olivia.
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Don & Sandi Carter posted a condolence
Saturday, June 22, 2024
Russ & Margy,
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Our heartfelt sympathies to you and your family.
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Dale Bennett posted a condolence
Saturday, June 22, 2024
Do not stand
By my grave, and weep.
I am not there,
I do not sleep—
I am the thousand winds that blow
I am the diamond glints in snow
I am the sunlight on ripened grain,
I am the gentle, autumn rain.
As you awake with morning’s hush,
I am the swift, up-flinging rush
Of quiet birds in circling flight,
I am the day transcending night.
Do not stand
By my grave, and cry—
I am not there,
I did not die.
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Mark Brian Grosky posted a condolence
Saturday, June 22, 2024
Our family is heartbroken by the news of this tragedy. We have been blessed in so many ways by Hanshi Jarem and our Budokai Family. Olivia and Harper (and, of course, Owen and Margie) were and will always be held in the same esteem.
As so many have commented here, speaking with Olivia revealed an incredibly smart and kind soul that instantly made you recognize that she was Hanshi’s daughter.
We pray that the Jarem family may find some comfort in the wonderful memories of their life with Olivia and the outpouring of love from all that were blessed to know her.
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Lauren Gunner posted a condolence
Saturday, June 22, 2024
I am so very sorry, she was a beautiful soul. Prayers that she is at peace and to comfort you in your unspeakable sorrow.
Lauren Gunner
Kellan Gunner
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Joleyn Brewer posted a condolence
Saturday, June 22, 2024
Hanshi, we are so saddened to hear the news of Olivia’s passing. She was such a kind presence at the dojo and just a lovely person. Our thoughts are with you and your family. I will always remember Olivia fondly.
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Catherine Bologna posted a condolence
Saturday, June 22, 2024
Hanshi, I am so sorry. I have no words. My heart breaks for you and your family.
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Kathryn Finkbeiner posted a condolence
Saturday, June 22, 2024
She was inspirational - I am so sorry to her if he passing. She supported my "year of yes" and got me to teach kickboxing classes...something I never thought I could do. She can now rest. Sending so much love and support.
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Keith and Rylee Servis posted a condolence
Saturday, June 22, 2024
Russ, Margy, and family, any words would be inadequate to express how sorry we are for your loss. It's clear that Olivia impacted so many lives during her short life. Those of us who were part of her life at some point are blessed and lucky to have been around her and you. We know that you have many happy memories to carry you through this difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
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kathy Sullivan posted a condolence
Saturday, June 22, 2024
May love and memories help soften your sorrow and fill you with God’s peace.
Thinking of all of you with caring prayers.
Kathy and Gary Sullivan
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Amy Quinlan posted a condolence
Friday, June 21, 2024
There are no words.. I am so sorry, sending prayers and hugs and an abundance of love.
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Julie Dwyer posted a condolence
Friday, June 21, 2024
The world has lost a great positive shining light. Olivia touched so many people throughout her life and she made a difference along the way. Olivia's smile would give you confidence to tackle a tough workout and you knew that every conversation you had would be interesting. Her joy in talking about fitness, or educational theory, or music, or good food, made her a delight to be around.
We are sending our deepest condolences to the Jarem family. There are truly no words to describe how sad we are to hear of Olivia's passing.
Don and I send all of you love and strength in this very difficult time.
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Jane Richau posted a condolence
Friday, June 21, 2024
Ricky & family. I'm do sorry for your loss. My deepest condolences to all of you...
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Jim Connolly posted a condolence
Friday, June 21, 2024
So sorry for your loss. When I first started Karate,I spoke with Olivia about my fears with sparring and she gave some great advice . She encouraged me just hang in there. I think Olivia had the ability to encourage people in their endeavors.
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Maigen Connally posted a condolence
Friday, June 21, 2024
"Well I thought I knew it all, 'til I crashed into the wall
Let me learn from my mistakes and try to pick up all the pieces"
Olivia, we only had a handful of memories together, but they are some that I will cherish forever. You were on my mind the day you departed and I will forever regret not doing more to connect with you. Fly high sweet girl, and know that all of us are here watching over your baby girl.
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Friday, June 21, 2024
There are no words. Olivia was a strong and beautiful energy.
All my love and healing to all her family
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Ethan Smith posted a condolence
Friday, June 21, 2024
I am praying for your family. I am sorry for your loss. Olivia was a shining star and will be missed by many.
Ethan
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Danielle Forino posted a condolence
Friday, June 21, 2024
Sending my deepest condolences to the Jarem family. Words cannot describe how deeply saddened I am to hear of the passing of Olivia.
She illuminated every room she walked into and touched the soul of every person she got to know. Her beautiful blue eyes, bubbly personality, and contagious smile brought comfort to all those around her.
My heart also goes out to each of those who were blessed to know Olivia, may you all find peace in her passing and live each day for her.
I pray that Olivia watches over Harper and guides her through life’s trials and tribulations.
The world lost such a pure, loving and ambitious soul way too soon. May she rest in eternal peace.
Sending my love, thoughts, and strength during this time.
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Tiffany Tooley posted a condolence
Friday, June 21, 2024
Olivia, You are so loved and so dearly missed already. Our families are completely heartbroken and always will be. I can only hope you are at peace. Thank you for blessing us with the most precious gift, the life of our beautiful Harper. She loves you so much and will spend the rest of her life remembering all of the love you've given her and all of your special times together. You will be forever missed.
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Lauren Montera posted a condolence
Friday, June 21, 2024
She was always kind to me when she came to me at the pharmacy with her daughter. I can imagine how difficult it is to lose a sibling, but to lose a daughter is losing a deep rooted piece of yourself. I send my love to the jarem family.
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Donna Kirker posted a condolence
Friday, June 21, 2024
Our deepest condolences to the Jarem family in this devastating loss. May Olivia rest peacefully.
Our hearts and prayers are with you.
Sincerely,
Jeff, Donna, Marissa and Jennifer Kirker
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The Perna’s posted a condolence
Friday, June 21, 2024
We are praying for your family during this difficult time. May Olivia rest in peace and her beautiful memories ring through your hearts❤️
Love always,
The Perna Family
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Cynthia Meléndez & Eric Melendez posted a condolence
Friday, June 21, 2024
Our deepest condolences & sympathy on the loss of your daughter. The gates of heaven opened to receive Olivia K. Jarem
May the God Lord give you all strength through this difficult time.
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Joy posted a condolence
Friday, June 21, 2024
Russ and Family - My heart is broken with the weight of the loss of your beloved daughter Olivia. My thoughts are with you all as you grieve this difficult loss.
As the journey that no one ever wants to walk unfolds May your memories of her eventually make you smile and remember her essence and all that it brought to all of us. Much love.
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Friday, June 21, 2024
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So young so sad. You will be missed.
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Jeanine (GiGi) Gonyea posted a condolence
Friday, June 21, 2024
Though we only met a few times it was an honor to meet such an impressionable young woman, be at forever peace sweet Olivia
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